I swear. This is why I don't fuck with women. This is why I don't like my man having female friends. This is why I only have a select few in my circle.

So I went to my fiance's show on Thursday. It was fun. The only issue I was having was I was in pain due to being pregnant. The show ends and we go home. Friday rolls along. My friend had messaged me on messenger so I open the messenger app, low and behold there's a message request. I thought it was from my ex since he tried messaging me recently. Nope. It's from a girl who I don't even recognize (we'll call her B since she's wanting to act like one). The message said "How long have you and (we'll call my fiance Squishy since I don't like posting real names) Squishy been together?" and it was sent on Thursday during the show while my fiance's band was on stage.

I asked her who she was and why she was asking. I did some digging while I waited for a response. I saw she was friends with my fiance's band mate (we'll call him Dylan). So I texted him and asked him how he knew her and if she knew Squishy. Dylan says he just met her at the show on Thursday and I should ask squishy if he knows her. So I did. Turns out she was an old friend and someone he had messed around with 6 months before me. Interesting.

So she finally responds and says "I'd rather talk in person. Sorry I don't mean to cause problems. I was drunk and upset last night."

I don't like games. Plus I'm pregnant so I'm not in the mood, right? So I tell her "Look, I'm pregnant and grouchy and I don't play these little high school games. Tell me what you want or get out of my messages. Also, I'm not meeting you in person." She ended up giving some bull shit answer so I said okay bye and blocked her. I thought that would be the end of it. I was wrong.

Nope, she texts my fiance tonight talking about how he lied to her and if I know who she is and if I know that they were intimate while I've been pregnant. Talking about how him and I have been together for a year and a half (not true. We just had our year anniversary two days ago) and he cheated on me and how she's going to tell me the truth and how I'm all over his facebook.

I know for a FACT that he hasn't cheated on me. When we first got together, I went through his phone a few times (I had major trust issues) and never once saw her name or cheating texts. This whole year, almost every day we've spent together and when he's not with me, he's texting me and sending me snap chats. She also asked him if I knew that he was with her on Thanksgiving. He was with me and my family the entire day.

This whole thing is just absolutely crazy and so frustrating. Why do females have to be so damn crazy to try to break up a family? She's lying KNOWING I'm pregnant. She's trying (and failing) to cause problems KNOWING I'm pregnant and trying to act like she's doing me a favor and calling me "that poor girl" like I don't know she's lying.

I know some of you will question me, but I literally always know where he's at, I know who texts and calls him, and when he's out I know who he's with. He's never been secretive or given me a reason to not trust him. I'm sorry for the long rant. I just don't have anyone to talk to about this and I'm so frustrated. She's not only trying to fuck with my life or my fiance's life, but she's trying to fuck with my son's life and that's what angers me. She's lying for petty ass reasons. If she was so hurt and this were true, this would've been a problem and this would've been brought up a long time ago. I would have caught him by now.