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Then she needs to learn to let go. You're doing your part
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Hey everyone! So I want peoples opinions on things
So I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and for the looks of it and how I feel about him he is the man I want to marry, spend the rest of my life with, and have babies. So right now we basically live in his parents house. We're always either out or at his parents house just chillen. I rarely go to my house and I live like 4 mins away. My mom and I got into it on Sunday because I never really come around anymore. I'm just always so busy with school and work it's just sometimes I don't find the time to go to my house. I love my mom to death and will always cherish the love she has for me but she's always been really strict and this is really my first real boyfriend and she has definitely cut the cord and has let go of me a lot I get she misses me but I'm growing up and I just feel like she's always wanting me to be hugging by her side. Idk I just want peoples opinions about it because I don't feel that I am wrong for not always going to my house I was there for ever and I'm just more of an independent women and I never ask my mom for money anymore she doesn't pay for anything of mine anymore Idk please just give me your opinions! Thanks ladies!
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I think she's just worried since it's your first bf and things are going well yet she is just a mom who is wary. And you're her baby no matter what. Also, as we grow older we get so caught up in our own lives we forget those who are closest to us. It's okay that you're doing you and becoming an adult. Just don't take it for granted once the time comes where she isn't around anymore. Mom will always be mom.
My mom and I grew really close once I became an adult. We didn't get along too much when I was younger. Maybe just do your best to balance your time with her and everything else going on so she doesn't feel left out. I'm grown and live with my fiancè and can't go very long without seeing or speaking to my mom. She just loves you that's all 💛. If you can't hang out, try calling her to check on her more often.
Ja
I bet that's it. My mom came to visit so many times after I moved out. They just don't want to feel like we don't need them anymore. And even if you're taking care of yourself always let make her feel like you need her. I promise she'll feel better about it
Br
I have been talking to her everyday! I guess she would just like to see me and I love seeing her too!
I am in the EXACT same situation. Wow. I don't think there is anything wrong with what you're doing.
As
My mom and I have the same argument and that's my point too. If I'm taking care of myself and not running to you asking you to fund my life, what's the problem?
Br
I didn't think so either especially since she's not paying for anything for me anymore
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