opinions

So I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and for the looks of it and how I feel about him he is the man I want to marry, spend the rest of my life with, and have babies. So right now we basically live in his parents house. We're always either out or at his parents house just chillen. I rarely go to my house and I live like 4 mins away. My mom and I got into it on Sunday because I never really come around anymore. I'm just always so busy with school and work it's just sometimes I don't find the time to go to my house. I love my mom to death and will always cherish the love she has for me but she's always been really strict and this is really my first real boyfriend and she has definitely cut the cord and has let go of me a lot I get she misses me but I'm growing up and I just feel like she's always wanting me to be hugging by her side. Idk I just want peoples opinions about it because I don't feel that I am wrong for not always going to my house I was there for ever and I'm just more of an independent women and I never ask my mom for money anymore she doesn't pay for anything of mine anymore Idk please just give me your opinions! Thanks ladies!