So I'm engaged and we were planning on having the big dream wedding in a few years when we could afford it but thing came up and my partners aren't helping me out anymore and my fiancé is my provider and i can't get on his medical insurance without being married so we were going to go to the justice of the peace and make things easier and at first I was okay with that but the more I thought about it, it felt very wrong. I want my family there and I can't get married with it only the two of us. So now I'm trying to think of a cheap backyard wedding with our family then go out to eat at a nice restaurant after.. but the more I think about it the more complicated it's getting. I want the nice dress but I can't afford it so I'll probably get a dress from Macy's or something. I have no idea what I'm doing to try and plan this.