No Sex Drive!!

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. We used to have sex A LOT! (Like 4 times a day lol) I'be been on birth control almost our whole relationship. This past year has been so hard on our sex lives.. I did switch birth control a few times within the past couple years. I've been on Microgestin the past year though. I never feel up to doing anything! I can never get horny no mad how hard I try or don't try. And when we do have sex, I can't orgasm anymore😩 I feel so bad bc I want to please my man (and myself) but it's hard when my body has no sex drive anymore. I know each girls reaction to birth control is different but does anyone have any tips bc your girl is struggling over here!!!