How can I get used to it? (orgasm question)

Lauren
Okay so basically I use vibrators, and the bathtub to stimulate my clit and orgasm, And when my boyfriend does stuff to me, and honestly it feels good but sometimes I don't feel like I'm going to cum, and other times I also feel like I'm on the verge of orgasming but I never do. 
Anyways should I maybe stop with the toys and stuff and just use my fingers on my clit to get used to having a finer? Or should I maybe stop completely for a while and then  I won't be used to anything? Idk I need advice!!!