Baby shower drama!

Please tell me I am not the only one with drama surrounding their baby shower! I fought with my Mom. She doesn't like the invites I chose or the place I want to have it. Also, two of my cousins are throwing pool parties and traveling both weekends we choose to possibly have it. I am a teacher so I am trying to plan it in the Summer before I have to go back to work. I also have to travel 1200 miles to attend because I moved away from where I grew up. I feel like no one is working with me. At this point, I don't even want the shower because it is stressing me the fuck out. I am sure my hormones aren't helping the situation but I feel like I shouldn't be crying over this shit. Tell me I am not alone, lol.