Trying to keep up with BDing !!

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Hi ladies so I just got another bfn I know super demotivating and down right depressing. I even had a little breakdown yesterday .... For two months of trying it certainly feels like forever. So I can't even begin to imagine how you ladies who have been trying for months and months are going through it all. 
​So amongst my breakdown and bfn all I could think about was that we need to BD and obvs hubbie doesn't want to or rather can't get in the mood like that and I'm not in the mood yet the pressure to BD and start trying again builds. 
​So how do you ladies keep it fun and exciting and not let the disappointments effect your BDing? Could really use some advice here on how to keep things going in that department !!