I don't want to have sex!!
I've been seeing this guy, we are not together "officially" until he gets back from college. We have done everything sexual already. We have sex basically every time he comes home.
We are both religious and after going to a service on Friday, I realized that we should not be having sex.. except he doesn't agree with this.
He thinks that since we already have had sex that it doesn't matter. He also keeps saying that since I have said this before (which is true) and that it has happened where I have just said screw it and threw it away because we were in the moment.
I feel like he doesn't understand that he shouldn't even be doing stuff with me because he isn't committed to me (this is my personal view as honestly having sex right now and having him not be my boyfriend sucks because I've had a guy take my virginjty and never talk to me again.. so if we aren't together what is stopping him from doing that?
I almost feel like this is all about sex.. and that it seems like he is using me for sex since he is like getting so offensive about it. It feels like he is pressuring me almost.. I really care about him and I want to work things out. What can I say or do?? I'm all out of ideas..
Please help me! And thanks for all the advice in advanced
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