Too scared to have sex.

We have yet to have sex since I found out I was pregnant and I'm still too scared. It's been roughly 10 weeks since the last time we've done it and I'll be 14 weeks along Wednesday. I know it's starting to get to my husband because he's becoming a lot more distant even though I share my thoughts. They found a blood clot in my uterus at my first appointment and told me I could have bleeding but didn't tell me to refrain from anything but the thought still haunts me that sex could cause some bleeding. We've had no luck in 8 years to become pregnant and I just don't feel like taking any kind of risk even though I'm in my second trimester. He's not fine with "other" things either. He wants the real deal so to speak and I don't know what to do. I know if I finally caved I would be in fear the whole entire time and days afterwards looking for signs of blood,cramps, etc and I would hate to put that extra worry on myself yet.  Guess I'm just kind of venting. I'm not mad at him cuz I understand but I just wish he felt the way I feel of "why risk it?" Why can't men(or my man) be fine with cuddling and watching movies and feeling "close" in that way 😩