dont want to, as I ask him almost every night, but he always makes an excuse for it. Its either Im tired, or I have to do this or that, or I just dont feel like it. Then gets mad at me when I get upset. My libido has gone down zero even with two kids, a full time school load and a job and Im the one that does all the 'caring' aka baths, dinner, dressing, bed time, etc. i just dont get why he never wants to anymore and its really upseting and has really made me feel more like I have a roommate than a husband. I dont know what to do anymore as I have tried talking to him about it and he gets mad and blows off everything I say... I just dont know... am I being selfish?