would you tell your siblings SO?

Question

I came across this post on Facebook. Say that you find out your sibling has cheated on their SO. Do you tell the SO? 
Personally, if my sister cheated on her husband, I may lecture her and encourage her to her her husband, but I'm not telling. It's not my place. He gets suspicious, I'm covering for her. She wasn't out with some guy, she was with me and we went shopping. My loyalty lies with my sister, not the spouse. What is your take?

Accepted Answer

I would never lie to protect my sister if she did something as hurtful and disgusting as cheating but I wouldn't tell her SO either, as it's not my place. So basically I'd stay out of it all together and make it known that I don't agree or support what she is doing.

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I would tell her to do what she want with her life, but don't tell me about it because if anybody asks me, I will not lie. I won't give up my integrity for anybody. Not my sister or anyone else. That's why my sister knows better than to involve me in her dramas.

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I told my brothers ex wife he was cheating. She had just had their first baby and he was fucking someone he worked with. He's disgusting and she wasn't from the state we lived in so she no family or anything and he did that to her. Dispicable.

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Nope, I would have told her you either tell him or I will. Cheating is never ok no matter who it is.

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I wouldn't cover for her but I wouldn't actively out her. If you want to sleep around don't be married unless it's open and both parties have agreed to it

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I'm definitely not covering up for it. Even if I hated their spouse, wrong is wrong. I'm not lying on the commitment of marriage for no one. Yes my loyalty is for her, but I'm gonna tell her to be a good person because we were raised better.

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I'd stay out of it. And I would NEVER cover for either of them. I'd straight up tell the person who asks if they were with me no. They put them selves into this mess they can sort it out themselves and deal with the consequences. It may seem mean but just because it's my big bro or little sister, I'm not changing my views on cheating to "help" them get out of trouble 👍🏼

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No way would i cover for them. Ive been cheated on and left and our bestfriend knew and covered for him. 
Idc who it is, if i found out they were cheating on their SO i would give them an ultimatum of you tell them or i will.

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I'm not interfering in my siblings marriages. I can be all judgey in private, but I'm not tattling on them. It's not my place. Besides, I love them so much it hurts. If they're in a bad enough place that they're cheating, something's wrong, and I would assume they'd talk about things first. Like they're not going to go have affairs just for the hell of it, they're gonna let me know something's not great with their relationship. Not excusing it, but again, not my place to get involved.

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Family is family no matter the situation. I got my sister's & brother's back no matter what they did or didn't do.

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