I can't figure out any names!

Penelope
So I have made a list. And narrowed it down.
But nothing seems right. 
And some of the ones I do like, I shared with a friend, and now she's using one of them. 
Not sure how I feel about that. But I want to pick a name that feels right, and not have to worry about picking the wrong name because it got swiped. 
Ahhh! Help! 
How did you pick your babies name!?