My son is nearly 4 and we have included him early in this pregnancy mainly because he can be really rough, especially when he's tired. So the crazy few hours from 4pm-7pm, that all parents of toddlers fear, he jumps on me & lashes out.

What I'm asking is: How have you dealt with an older sibling being 'careful' around your bump? & how much should I worry?

He's very caring and gentle most of the day & kisses my tummy often.

After my booking-in appointment I told him that the doctor heard the baby say it doesn't like it when its big brother hurts mummy. We have a time-out step & sticker chart, (I've also yelled and cried because my stress gets crazy due to hormones - not proud - mother of the year!) but I don't want to create a negative relationship between them already. Genuine ask for help! xxxxx

Negative comments unwelcome.