Why is it that a man gets the easy way out? Dont change a diaper wont feed the baby wont pick the baby up if shes crying, always waits for me to get her. He never does anything unless i ask him too, and even then doesn't look thrilled. We have a 3 year old and a 1 month old i care for both of them ALL on my own. Now my husband does go to work and pays for everything but doesnt help with the kids i stay at home with both of them. Are we doing things right or is something wrong.. Any one going through this?