pain masturbating??

So I went to a sex shop with some friends a few weeks ago and brought myself a dildo, but any time I've used it it's been mostly uncomfortable and even slightly painful, mostly right up around my cervix?? The width isn't a problem.
I'm a virgin and I'm worried that sex with my SO with be unpleasant since it's just a bit smaller than he is. Is this normal? Will it get better over time? 
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Da

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Use lube, u may not be aroused enough, try watching porn or masturbating with ur fingers first,  rub the dildo on ur clit and on ur labia first and then go in gently and slowly, but Defo use lots of lube 

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What is your clit I am so confused and embarrassed to ask about it 

Da

Dani • Apr 25, 2017
Clit is located by the hood, at the top of ur genitals, feel around ur labia and u will kno when u find it