16+4 no movement!

Melissa • Married to the love of my life! Had my sweet Madison on 07/31/15 and now due with baby #2 Oct' 16.
So I'm almost 17 weeks and beginning to feel a little frustrated, I haven't felt any stronglvement yet. I think I felt a few flutters a couple of times but was unsure! I just want to be able to have that bond with my baby already!! Plus I'm a first time mom so it worries me not knowing he or she is moving in there! Anyone else?