So my husband and I have a 6 year son, he will be 7 this June. Our daughter is 8 weeks old today. On Saturday my husband told me he would like another baby. And normally I would tell him wait a while and she we adjust to having two kids but there is a part of me that would totally want another one. Here's the catch, my husbands work have 3 locations. 1 being here in California we were living 2. In Arizona and 3 being in Texas. He asked me if I would move to Texas so he can work there and we would be able to buy a bigger house and there is no taxes out there. He said it would be more affordable to have a third baby if we lived in Texas. I personally don't want to move to Texas or any where else because both of our families live out here. And my family helps us so much with our kids. If we moved to Texas my family won't move there. My husband helps his parents in every way. They stuff he has to do for them is like taking on two extra kids. Which to an extent I totally understand helping family but when they are just not responsible people it's totally different. But I know if we moved to Texas he would probably end up moving his family out there which would take away from my family income. And I just don't think it's fair that if we move his family will be out there and mine won't. My husband says he won't move them out there but I know he will. So is it really worth having another baby so we can move to Texas but be away from my family? It's not like I have to make a decision today but I guess I need to first figure out if I want another baby in the future or not. Because If I do we would have to move. But why should I have to sacrifice adding on to my family? My husbands work has never asked him to go to Texas and they never would it's more of you ask them. And it's not like we can afford to have another baby. I stay at home but my hubby makes almost 200,000 a year and we currently have a four bedroom and we only use three out of the four. I guess I am just wonder what you moms would do?