Just venting!

So via Instagram I found out one of my employees (who's not even 21 yet!) is pregnant with her bfs baby. I know the both of them & they are wonderful people. BUT...they are very young & this was a total oops. What I'm upset about is here I have been preparing myself/body for the last 6 months to conceive & NOTHING!!! 
Does anyone else have these conflicting feelings when they find out some one else is pregnant?