SOOOO HORNY

Help! Ever since my partner and I had our daughter he's been kinda lousey in bed. I feel like I've tried everything, putting out really good refraining from sex completely, watching porn with him, asking what he would like done. Everything and I just can't keep him interested enough to have those good multiple times in one night and wanting to participated in pleasureing me not just letting me do everything. I want my pussy licked and to have an orgasm! He's just not lasting that long or doing anything long enough.