Friend help please? Kinda long sorry

Kelsey
So I have a bacchelorate party in May probably my last one till one of my other cousins get engaged. Well my friend wants to attend the EXACT same stupid conference with her mother that she attended in October. We both dont ask for days off that often if I ask for days off its mainly for a wedding or something like that. Well she takes off a week in August for some stupid county fair all because she needs to show horses and be in a horse show in which she cant get a ribbon for because shes not in 4h. Well our boss said that if she takes off in May she only gets 4 days off for fair which makes sense to me but clearly didnt make sense to her she looked pissed. Honestly I just feel like my friend is a lil spolied I havent asked for days off in forever since last Ocotober but that was a different weekend. And last time I went straight from work to a bacchelorate party I got drunk and missed half of it dont want it to happen again but she doesnt care apparently.