So I have been so depressed for a couple of days... last weekend my boyfriend went out of town and I was totally cool with it, I just wanted to be alone that weekend anyway so I didn't fight him about it. When he came back I only saw him for two days during the week and on Friday I told him I wanted to hang out with him because we haven't had a full day together since he left for out of town. I ended up going to a event that Friday and I told him to wait for me and that the event would be over at 9 but before the event ended he texted me that he wanted to go hang out with the same friends he had went out of town with, because he was tired of waiting for me and he was bored at home. I told him it was almost done and as soon as it ended I went over and he told me his friend was on his way to pick him up I told him "no I want to hang out with you I barely saw you this whole week and you just came bAck from out of town and you were with them all weekend" his friends always invite me out with them but I usually don't go because I know my bf just wants it to be them. And it really bums me out that he doesn't want me there with him. My bf invites me with them usually but it hasn't been like that lately. He told me that he has been feeling pressured to hang out with me and that I've Been manipulating him to hang out with me. But I literally just want to hang out with him and then after a while he told me that sometimes he just wants to hang out with other ppl, like what? What does that mean?we haven't talked since Friday when we got into that whole argument. We can go days without talking when we argue and it's frustrating because I don't like when he does that. If you guys are gonna say to text him... let me just tell you he won't reply.. it's on his terms and he is so immature about it. Anyway we are 23 years old have been together for 8 years now. Help me :( my heart hearts from all of this and what do you guys think? Am I making him hang out with me?