trying and failing πŸ™ƒ -need tips please! πŸ’•

Sierra
Ok so I have tried for a while to squirt and I know it is all about relaxing and letting it happen but even before I am really close to going my body automatically tenses literally so easily to everything, however it's not like I'm super overly sensitive to everything - does this make sense? Lol any tips to help relax when I tense during the way up there?