really had my heart set to 2 kids before 30 but I'm 29 with none as yet!

Hi everyone. I've been reading posts and some have really helped me with dealing with my my issues. I'm turning 30 in September and my husband and I have been actively trying for 2 years to get pregnant. Last year on my 29 birthday I conceived but sadly had an ectopic pregnancy. We got the all clear to start again in march however nothing. I'm ovulating as normal but nothing! It's really getting to me. I sit and cry at times thinking about this. My husband is very supportive and doesn't put any pressure on me. Neither does my family. But everyone else in my life who doesn't know my struggles keep saying things like 'what are you waiting on?' Or 'it's about time u guys start a family'. Like helllooooo I want that as well! I'm just not in control of that. I've read everything possible about getting pregnant. I don't know what else to do. It really gets me down at times