personal question. have you ever bleached your...

So this is kind of embarrassing but I've noticed my private areas are darker than normal. They've always been kind of dark, even before pregnancy and I'm pretty light on the rest of my body. Have you ever bleached your butt? I am super self concious about anyone else seeing it. It never really bothered me that much until now. It's making me rethink my choices of who I will let be in the delivery room. Help! If bleach is unsafe because of pregnancy is there anything else to do? Any special soap?