Anytime I see my mom and my grandma (which I try to limit as they stress me out) they pressure me to have another kid. My son is 7, only kid and that's how me and my husband like it. My grandma had 8 kids, my mom being one of them. They gut trip me saying its selfish to ha e my son grow up an only child. It hasn't mattered what I say they bring it up every time. What would you say? As far as reasons the main one is my health. During my pregnancy my fibromyalgia was completely gone. It may not be like that another time though and id have to stop taking my medicine. There's other reasons too. What would you say to just end it?