My ex bf still text me sometimes, to talk or ask me about random things. For example, he'll ask me if i applied for an apartment, that we would go see when we were looking for places together. Or he´ll tell me about how he lost his job and he needs me to recommend him for one. And its not like will go on for hours talking, he´ll just text me for that and then he´ll disappear again.

Idk what to think, iv told him that it hurts me to talk to him becUss i get my hopes up but he still continues to do it.