Warning...long post

There's this guy I've been talking to since last December. It was off and on for a bit, but it was because of his job. However, the first time was he found someone else. I told my parents in March bc I pretty much suck at relationships, for whatever reason I attract the troublemakers and I didn't know how I was going to tell them. I met him through his sis who I played softball with when I was a kid. All I wanted was to rekindle my friendship with her bc we were so close as kids. He requested to follow me on Instagram. It's a big deal for me bc I haven't dated since this time last year. He has me blocked on Instagram and Facebook but not on Snapchat and not my number (as far as I know). I've heard he's trouble from people I know and trust, but he said he's ready to settle down. He has 2 daughters ages 3 and almost 2 by different girls. I've heard he's just looking for a virgin to take. Girls like me (never done anything) are what guys like him (he's a supposed player) prey on. He hasn't texted me since probably a little before 8:30 a.m. yesterday. I hate this blocking/unblocking game he plays but idk what to do. His family's a little on the rowdy side, which is no help at all. Please don't judge, I know I may be totally fooled and he really could be a jerk. But he could be a guy trying to change and no one really sees that, unless he just isn't changing. One other thing I forgot to add for those of you who are currently reading this or just finished reading this, I haven't contacted him. I have not said a word. I am very devout about waiting until I'm married and he said he could wait.