cold shoulder from my boyfriends stepmom
so my boyfriends dad and stepmoms marriage was struggling and they thought maybe if they tried to be polygamous they could save it, but it kinda just ruined everything. His dad got a girlfriend and his stepmom pretended to be ok with it for a while nd eventually she was like "ok i can't do this anymore, i'm not ok with this, i don't want to share my husband" and he said he wasn't breaking up with his girlfriend so he left his wife for his girlfriend. there have been months of just petty facebook and instagram post circulating between my boyfriends stepmom, his dad, and his dads girlfriend. i stayed out of it the best i could, but it was weird because i knew his dads girlfriend before it all happened so i just tried to be neutral towards everyone. my boyfriend tried to stay out of it but his dad consistently dragged him into it, like when his dad told his stepmom that my boyfriend "wants nothing to do with you anymore, you make him sick" which he never said, he loves his stepmom, he's known her since he was 7 and he's 21, the only thing he's said about it was he wishes that they would handle it like adults and stop dragging him into it. but anyway, his stepmom won't really talk to my boyfriend, she deleted him on every social media platform she has, she deleted me on everything and blocked my number. except for snap chat, but my boyfriends dad says she just uses that to see what we're doing and then runs back and complains about stuff to his dad. in one of her daughters snapchats she in the background was like "they don't fuck with me no more, they got that nasty ass (i'm not gonna say her name) now" and like it just really stings, I was really really close with his stepmom. my boyfriends dad runs a family owned business and they all worked there so as I started to go she always spoke to me, I was friends with her before I'd ever even really had an actual conversation with my boyfriend, she like dropped hints that he liked me, he said she's the one who encouraged him to ask me out because he was nervous and wasn't sure i liked him. but anyway, I was really close with her before we started dating, I became even closer with her once I spent more time with their family, she called me her adopted daughter, we always joked how on me and my boyfriends yearly anniversaries we were gonna go out, not me and my boyfriend, out of all of my boyfriends girlfriends I'm definitely her favorite and she thinks i'm the best match out there for him. but it's just weird because she told his dad she wasn't talking to anyone associated with him or his girlfriend and like… There's time where I'm gonna have to be around my boyfriends dad, not only does he work for his dad, he frequently stays with his dad, and if his girlfriend is there, I'm gonna have to be around her too, and she's also my boyfriends landlord it's not really realistic to think I have a choice. Actually in the whole thing, I was kind of on her side, I felt bad for her, I could only imagine how painful it must be to become so desperate to try and make your husband happy and save your marriage for it to just blow up in your face. I understand that she must be hurt, but To be cut off when I didn't do anything stings…I consistently miss her and her daughters. we used to all eat dinner together every sunday and ever since she moved out just my boyfriend, his dad, sister, and his dads girlfriend it's just empty. I just hate that our relationship went from close to not having one because of something out of my control 😕
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