Question. Is it weird to have women older than you as Bridesmaids? I'll be 21 when I'm getting married but a lot of my friends who i want to be in my wedding will be in their late 20s and mid 30s. My one co worker who I've bonded with from the beginning and have spent time with outside of work is in her late 40s and id love to have her in my wedding as well. I just don't know if people will judge me for having women in my wedding who are not close to me in age.