Attitude

🐵🦉🦖🦊 • SAHM 🧒JEC 5/12/11 🧒CIC 3/20/14 🧒IJC 3/25/16 👼JRC 9/7/17 - 5/31/18
My husband has been giving the kids and I an attitude like crazy lately. Im so sick of it. Everytime I try to talk to him and ask him what's wrong he just says nothings wrong. I've asked him why he has an attitude all the time or sounds mad so much and he says he doesnt. Also it's way worse when he thinks I have an attitude. I won't even have one it's like he tries to hear one so he can snap. It's so frustrating. I've been trying be patient with him but I'm losing it. It's really hurting me that he's acting this way. Everyday I try to treat it like a fresh start and hope he's in a better mood but every day he's pissed. I try to keep myself fine throughout the day and try to get his spirits up as the day goes on I just feel more and more down about it and give up trying to please him. Hes completely ruined some of my days with his attitude and him being ungrateful. Lately when he gets an attitude I just say I don't deserve to be talked to that way. Idk what to do. I feel like I've tried whatever I can to turn it around but he obviously doesn't want to change his mood. I've tried a lot to talk to him but get nothing. Then he wants sex and I straight up tell him I don't want to have sex when I'm constantly being talked down to by you. I'm not mean or snide about it I'm just being honest. Help