Relationship advise

Hey ladies I went through my boyfriend phone, while doing so I saw him texting about eight other women the same way he would text and call me one of them it even said lets have phone sex sending pics back and forth. I woke him up and asked him to leave my house he cried and begged for another chance, he's always on some game or the other and we've been making up and breaking up for eleven years now and he's still not ready to take another step. The only thing he's been asking for is a baby going on three years now. Any advise