never had an orgasm

Okay. I lost my virginity when I was 14. Now, I'm married. I've had a total of 3 sexual partners, and I have never had an organism. Don't get me wrong, I'm really good at faking them, but I need help. 
Does anyone have any tips or tricks?😩😩
Update: I masturbate, but I've never finished. Like, it feels good, but I never reach completion. My husband and I have tried a few toys, even a vibrating duck ring. It feels good, but I just don't finish.