Leading up to my daughters birth I had preeclampsia, had to be admitted two weeks before and am currently still here for another 5-7 days.  It was a scheduled c section due to the complication and Aurora was born at 34 weeks.  She is unfortunately in the NICU.  My in laws live a town away from us.  We are about 15 mins from the hospital.  They can get around, my parents live over 2hrs away.  Tell me why I text my in laws the news, no realonse.  My husband calls an hour later and their response is oh yeah we saw we were shopping at Target & still seem to have no desire to see their granddaughter.  My sister in law had the first grandchild about two months ago, a baby boy.  I'm not close with my mother in law, I've tried, I've been with my husband for 14 years.  Am I wrong for being upset?