I've been dealing with this guy for 4 years I only see him once a mth or every couple of weeks if I'm lucky he always tells me how much he's in love & how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but he doesn't always an effort. There's thi other female who's been claiming to be with him. She's always posting pics on his house but when I approach him he says that he wasn't joke or that the pics were old & how she's obsessed at this point I'm just done with the whole situation I can't keep fighting for nothing......