I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 mths now we only went out like 4 times I have a daughter & he has a son. I'm constantly complaining to him because he never has time for me. He works the night shift so when I'm getting home he's already at work. We don't live together. He's off on the weekends but when he's off he has his son. I feel like if he can squeeze just a couple of hours for me on The Weekend maybe Sat or even Sunday but for some reason he feels that I'm rushing things. We rarely have sex & when we do he has to be in control of everything I can't be on top & I can't move. His whole world revolves es around his son which is ok but I feel like he needs to make time for me as well. Am I being selfish???