What is your opinion about guys saying "You're so tight?"

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Some netizens think it's a turn on to the girl when the guy says she's tight, but imo that's not right. When she's tight doesn't it mean that she's not turned on enough? And that guys only say that statement to validate themselves that they're "big" no matter what the size?

Someone tried to argue w me that it's just the two people's physical makeup that he's just too big and she's just tight, and i said that's not a valid reason, because our vaginal canal are capable of expanding to allow a little human out and if it can't fit a dick the size of a thumb or the size of a foot, it just means that they didn't get her turned on enough for him to slide it on just easily.

Can anyone tell from experience?

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I mean my bf tells me I'm so tight a lot and how good it feels etc. I don't find it offensive, and it's not that he doesn't arouse me, I'm just very small down there. It's hard for me to put in tampons, getting even just a normal physical exam by my gyno can hurt really bad, never mind that god awful speculum. Maybe I have a problem, not sure, but it works, it feels great when we have sex even though I am tight, and trust me I get plenty lubrication. And yeah, my bf is kinda big so makes it more difficult.

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When a female is sexually aroused, not only does the vagina become wet and lubricated to allow for easier penetration, but the vagina wall actually expands a bit. If the female is "too tight," more foreplay is needed. Unless you like it dry and rough, I mean I'm not judging. But yeah guys who say that are dumb lol. Understandably, a first time is a bit different. But it really doesn't have to be overly painful. I think women should experiment with their vagina before having sex. It could make the process a lot easier for them.

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I can tell you that once I orgasm I am  waay tighter ,and my fiancé of course loves how tight and swollen I get after I climax.

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It turns me on... I mean.... it is a compliment. Doesn't mean you aren't wet. Would you prefer he say you're loose? I'd punch him and leave.

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Another reason for tightness is not having sex for awhile. Having sex keeps your hymen at a good size for a penis to fit through, but when you stop having sex for awhile, it will tighten back up.

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Wtf guys are so dumb, especially when it comes to the female body. Everything you just said is correct. You seem very intelligent.

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I don't take it as an insult or stupidity. So long as it's not hurting me, and yes I am turned on enough it's just a comment. I'm smaller in general down there and do my kegels all the time! So I can tighten and relax my muscles and my man get me to climax countless times so that swells and tightens the muscles too.

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My boyfriend tells me I'm tight all the time. For us I think it's because he usually has me so turned on that I end up orgasming either right before he sticks it in or as he does. My husband always told me I was really tight too but I just figured it was from him being so well endowed.

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There are a lot of factors that contribute to vaginal tightness or not.....
Anxiety can cause tightness, just like arousal makes your pelvic muscles more relaxed. Some people also suffer from vaginismus; a condition in which the vagina is too "tight" to penetrate and sex becomes painful

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My ex told  me that when we were dating and he loved it, hubby says the same....

What is your opinion about guys saying "You're so tight?"

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