He asks me to come and hang out with him all the time and I always have to make an excuse because I don't want to. I don't like the people he hangs around. Last night at midnight he asked me to come over and I almost did. I was waiting for my parents to go to sleep so I could sneak out and see him. It became too late and my parents never went to bed. He texted me at 2 AM calling me "babe" and that he "needed me". He was obviously trashed so I didn't reply. I was angry he lied to me bc I don't want to be around smoking or drinking bc I don't want to get into it, even though he says he was going to quit. I saw pictures on instagram of him and his friend's lighting bongs and downing bottles of vodka. I don't want to be with a guy who does that, but when he's sober, he is sweet and beautiful. I don't know how to tell him I don't want this. Any suggestions?