worried about recovery

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my parents and his parents finally know each other. it's been hard to get them together but we managed so they wouldn't only make ser each other in the maternity. 
however my mother in law saw picutures at my parents house where i'm skinnier... and she couldn't believe it was me, so... she teamed up with my mother and bullied me around regarding pos partum and dieting and getting fit.... etc etc
i know the importance of getting in shape after and i want it above all to loose all this belly. but i have been loosing weight with the pregnancy. breastfeeding makes you loose weight normally and keeping the diet varied should help i just don't like the 2 in one pressure now