Im 34. My husband just turned 35. We've been married for four years. But we know eachother since first grade. I never really wanted kids because i had a terrible childhood. He wants one. So I decided to start seriously thinking about it. Made the right steps. Saw my OBGYN. Im on prenatal vitamins. We were supposed to start trying two weeks ago while we were om vacation...but he kept pulling out. He finally told me he was nervous and is trying to ease into the whole thing. We've had sex several times. He continues to pull out. We had a huge fight the other night. Im angry because HE wants a kid and I made the steps to get myself ready and hes literally jerking me around. I told him when i ovulate but he says he doesnt care. When he starts... he says... it'll just happen. Now hes postponed **** inside of me till next weekend. But that will probably change. FYI: He plays video games nonstop in his spare time and is so desperately trying to hang onto his youth. I just dont think he wants to grow up. He likes the idea of having a kid but i dont think he wants to do the work. Me personally... i dont care if i have one or not. I believe life hands you what youre supposed to have. If it doesnt happen within a year im getting my tubes tied. Kittens are cuter anyway lol atleast i can laugh about this. Otherwise i'll go crazy!