Anyone elses partner or husband cause there anxiety or to feel down?

My husband gets stressed so easily, big or small its a big deal. Its so frustrating to constantly hear and then if ive done something or whatever hell stress at me and then its an arguement. Like just then i put my phone on charge and his off and he yelled "how dare u take my phone off charge" in a rude tone. Not a big deal to me.

Or tonight at finner had a go at me coz he didnt wanna cook risoles he wanted to cook an easy version (how he eats then mince and cheese and taco mix) but my daughter cant have it coz its spicey. Anyway he was rude, demeaning and his lije this regardless of how i am back to him.

Ive realised its a trigger to me feeling down for days! And my anxiety