realllyyy stupid question...

Sara
My mom has been telling me how fat my face has gotten since I've gotten pregnant. Its making me paranoid and I think its actually kinda rude how she ALWAYS points it out. Does it look like ive gained THAT much weight/am swollen in my face? Ive gained 19 pounds and am 30 weeks 1 day. Is that bad? 
Left- pre pregnancy
Right- Now at 30 weeks.