I don't know how to do this. My husband and I are really struggling with being parents. The house is a disaster and there's no time for anything. We just had a three day weekend (we're both full time job holders) and all we got done was bare minimum. Half of laundry and most of dishes. No vacuuming. Other things that need to be done and we didn't do any of it. My postpartum anxiety is destroying our relationship and my ability to do much of anything (no tips here please I'm working on it). My husband is unhappy because he gets no time to play. We haven't had sex since the baby was born, partly relationship issues, partly lack of time. Our baby is still held for all naps and we cosleep at night because otherwise he wakes every half hour and neither of us want to sleep train him. I want to go shopping or go to the movies but that's impossible. Yes he has grandparents that can watch him but it's not really that being the issue. My husband hates shopping and has annoying to be around when we go and he hates movies. I have no friends, I've pushed everyone away because of breastfeeding and anxiety. And my mom's time is too precious to her to want to spend a day with me.

Idk what to do we're so unhappy. I'm in counseling and my husband refuses to go for himself. None of the couples counselors accept both our insurances.