Gender Reveal for second baby.

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and we are planning to do a gender reveal with our second child. My Aunt however thinks baby showers and gender reveals are just for your first child, but this is my rainbow baby and we are just as excited this time around as we were the first. I'm however not having a baby shower, but still planning on a gender reveal. It's going to be a cookout at our house. What do you think about gender reveals with your second?