Would you have sex before entering a relationship?

Question

I have been seeing this guy on and off since I was in the (and I hate to admit this) 10th grade. We mess around but we haven't had sex. We have a difference of opinion when it comes to that. I want to be in a relationship first before I have sex. He on the other hand wants to have sex before a relationship and if the sex is bad not even bother trying to make it good. So I have to ask would you ladies have sex before entering the relationship?

Answer

You should do what you're comfortable with, I personally don't view sex as a big deal and don't think someone needs to be in a relationship to have sex, but you should do what will make you comfortable, if having sex with him will make you feel bad about yourself and if you think you'll regret it then don't change how you feel for a boy!!

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Sex without being in a relationship is fine, it's fun even! You get the chance to see if you have this physical, raw connection without the strings attached. If neither of you like it, then that's fine, no one gets hurt from a break up from bad sex (because as awful as that sounds, it happens).

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No shame girl! I'm the same age as you and I've been on/off with a guy since 9th grade, so definitely no judging here! Anyway, I've had sex with my man even though we've never been official. I still love him with all my heart.

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Is fine to have sex before a relationship. However, if he's going to leave you (or any girl) just because you're not good at it then he doesn't deserve to be in a relationship with you

Would you have sex before entering a relationship?

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