My husbands ex left him, their 16yo severely autistic son and 2 daughters (10 & 8) on Thanksgiving. She cleaned out their savings and checking, leaving him with $12.  She'd been cheating for over a year he later found out and gave the money to another man. She told the girls she didn't want to be a mom anymore. 

During the divorce, she moved in with another man who lives 2 1/2 hours away but didn't tell anyone until the week before court. This cancelled their joint custody agreement. Hubby got full custody and child support. 

She gets every other weekend visitation. Over the past year, she consistently cancels at least once a month. It devastated the girls everytime.

For the first year she didn't pay child support so she's very behind. She was supposed to take Hubby off car title & loan 8 months ago (court order) and has NEVER paid a payment on time, damaging Hub's credit. She has the nerve to ask him to sign off on the $5000 back child support if she trades in her car. She threatens to try for custody for their son because he can't say what he wants. She knows the girls will not want to live with her, even though they want to see her. 

Today she's coming to visit the girls for a few hours because she flaked again on her weekend last week. She ASKED Hubby for gas money... AGAIN!

I've been barely hanging on to my temper when it comes to her. But now that I'm 18 weeks pregnant, I have no more patience. Grrr!!