Ok I know its not healthy to get pregnant a week after delivery and I'm not going to try that. What I want to know is when it's ok that I have sex? I know "go to the doctor" and i plan on it, but I was just wondering what others chose to do.

See I have been on bedrest since 16 weeks and haven't had sex since then. I lost my baby last Monday at 22 week and this whole 6 weeks of bedrest and not having sex longer than that (i think it was feburary or march) is killing me. I didn't even have to push. And I've got this friend that we do things together when were both single and I was thinking about hanging out with him.