Have you met someone who's given you bad vibes?

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Who was it, and how did you handle it?
 
I don't get that feeling much. But our baby is in hospital, and we met a ton of people the last few days. He's expected there for a few weeks.
 
A chaplain came by, and something about him feels off. I feel uncomfortable in his presence. We're not religious, so we don't require his services, which I'll flag with the social worker and healthcare nurse.
 
We're discouraging any unnecessary drop-ins by keeping the door closed as much as possible too.

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Oh yes. As a former drug user I spent years around the sketchiest people ever and really learned to read people. Always trust your instincts, especially when it comes to your child's safety.

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It's always best to trust those feelings. I'll never forget I was checking out of a hotel super late at night like around 10/11pm. I was headed towards the elevator when I seen this HUGE guy get in, I followed and I didn't think anything of it until the doors closed. The energy shifted as soon as the elevator doors closed. We get a couple floors down when anothe HUGE guy walks in and they give each other things ominous look. I grip onto my knife, luckily my bags were already in my car. I swear those guys felt like they were the men in black or something. The vibe that came of was nothing but pure evil. Mind I I'm the type of person not to even acknowledge a hello like I'm really not bothered by people I stay in my lane 99% of the time.

We finally approached the lobby floor when the doors open, this tiny skinny man about my height greets the 2 guys in the elevator as if he was waiting for them and says " come on let's go" (nothing too out of the ordinary right? No) but still I felt super nervous. I make a mad dash to my car called my dad (because I call him for everything 😂)  he immediately said "Mija they killed someone that's a killer u were just with" 👀👀 wtf how how do I know dad? My dads weird and just knows things like that. Turns out they did kill someone.. I was contacted by that counties police department since my name was on the registry and the room was on my floor. They were 100% HITMEN! 😬😬 I knew it! I always trust my gut. I new something was off.

Especially when that feeling just pops up out of no where, and it's a specific feeling (rapist, murder, drama etc) usually it's right.

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Yep, I'm very good at reading people (I have been since I was 16 months old), I've only ever been wrong once, if I feel anything about a person they're outta there,  I trust my instincts entirely and never ignore them, they're there for a reason.

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I'm ultra sensitive to people so I've learned to discern the harmless red flags from the harmful ones. The majority of people have a flag so I've learned to deal with that. If you aren't and have never been very sensitive like this and someone is giving you the creeps, they probably have what I call a black flag and you should listen to your instincts. You can let the staff know you want him on the restricted list and it shouldn't be a problem.

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Tell nurses and management you specifically do not want him in your room.

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FYI, anonymous posting isn't allowed in this room, so this might be deleted if you don't edit the post to make it not anonymous.

That being said, sure I have felt "red flags" when around some people. I typically just keep my distance; most of the time it has just been a short-term casual contact so nothing I have had to worry about too much. You have every right to tell your baby's caregivers that you do not want a chaplain visit. Or tell him when he comes. He should have no problem respecting that.

I do hope your baby gets well soon. I have been in the hospital a few times with my 6 month old, and it isn't easy. I am sorry your baby is having health issues.

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Yes. Only a few people though. Mostly 2 girls previously in my husbands life. One was an ex that they had known each other their whole lives and so they continued to be friends. She gave me a weird "I still want to fuck him" vibe so we cut that shit quick. I gave him the option to end that. I told him I didn't like it but he's an adult and I'm not trying to be that girlfriend who tells him what to do. Then, another girl who he's know a long while, came to visit while we were at his parents and she just gave me a bad vibe. Hugged him for too long. Called him babe.

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My bf has a friend who he suddenly wants to hang out with despite not liking him a couple months back lol. He gives me bad feelings that I refuse to be around him, not to mention he's 33 and we're 20&18. My bf thinks I'm overreacting but he seriously skeeves me out.

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Absolutely. I had a friend stay over at my house one time when she was 13. Her dad came over to pick her up and I got the heaviest sense of dread just seeing him. Something about his demeanor really bothered me. He was talking to us very nicely and thanking my parents for having her over but I could feel how on edge I was. Turns out he was physically and mentally abusing her and her mom.

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*please read admin post*

But ohhhhh yes. One of my partner's best friends. James sees no fault in him, but I knew something was off the first time I met him. I feel extremely uncomfortable when I'm near him. Of course, last week he hooked up with some chick in a club, went back to her hotel room and fucked her. Next day he was saying what an "ugly, fat slut" she is. James still sees no fault in him. It disgusts me.

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