So basically let me just start off by saying , my MIL does not like my mother but for some reason my MIL called my mother 2 days ago because she was planning a surprise baby shower for me. Well the next day my husband was talking on the phone and has this mad face when he was done. So in the night when he came home from work he told me he was sorry for taking it out on me and that he was mad because his mom called him saying shes not making the baby shower anymore because my mom was "Rude" to her / made her feel bad and said " we dont need your help" and now hes been ignoring my mother and making stupid comments about her that seriously piss me off because my mom has always been there not only for me but for him as well, were bearly 21 so were not that stable and were living with my mother since his parents kicked us out and they never even help him with anything. I keep telling my husband to talk to my mom about it and that my mom wouldn't say that and hes just like " no she did say that and im not going to talk to her anymore" like really quit acting like a fucking dumbass -.- I WAS THERE LISTENING TO THE WHOLE CONVERSATION when his mom and mine talked my mom was never rude to his and his mom totally flipped her words around and put words in her mouth. I feel like his mom is trying to make my husband turn against my mother so he will leave and not talk to her (since we live with her) yeah thats what she wants . she only uses us to take care of her kids doesnt even pay us or say thank you -.- She doesnt want us to be together well honey were married and are gonna have a baby so get over it ! 😉💁