Everyone is pregnant around me & it's breaking my heart, am I the only one that feels this way?

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Everyone I know is pregnant around me! Literally everyone. Or if there not pregnant, they have already had their sweet babies. That's all I see on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter....it's getting harder for me day by day to see positive pregnancy tests, congratulation comments, hospital pics of sweet babies, friends holding there child, ultra sounds, insanely cute baby pics, baby bumps...I don't think I can take it anymore. I'm so happy for all of them, God it's such a blessing, I'm so excited for the wonderful blessing in there lives....but when will I get to post a positive pregnancy test & reveal my big news? When will I hold a ultra sound or listen to my little ones heart beat? Or feel little kicks from him or her? When will I hold my entire world in my arms? My husband & I have been ttc for 7 months now, I just feel like I'm failing. My heart breaks each month I get my period. The look on my husbands face each month I tell him I started or the silence & huff when I ask him to pick up some tampons on the way home....I just want to be a mother. I feel like a failure. I know I know maybe it's not my time or it will happen when it happens but I get so frustrated...so many women abort their babies, & I'm praying hoping I get a chance to get pregnant & give mine a life. It's just not fair. Can anyone relate? Any sucess stories to literally give me hope? I feel like I will never conceive & it's breaking my heart.

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I'm so sorry that you are going through this too... I have been TTC for 6 months and still nothing. I absolutely understand that gut-wrenching  ache. I know in my third month I became extremely frustrated with myself and the situation, and gave myself a pep talk and decided to just take a more relaxed approach... And still nothing. 😞 this month I decided to take a more hands on approach, to learn more about my body through temping, and tracking my CM and cervix position. You may be doing this already, so if you are, that's great, if you're not, I would highly recommend😊  because I determined that i ovulated wayyyyy later than glow predicted, just because glow didn't have all of the information. I decided that if I'm not pregnant this cycle, I'm going to do ovulation tests. But you are not alone. You will have your world.  The other thing I'm doing is also educating my DH on the process... I really wish the teaching way back when is "it only takes one time" because it doesn't... There are sooooo many  factors that we have to have in place, but I truly believe that knowledge is power. Baby dust to you. And go do something super fun with your DH. 😊💫

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I feel the some way I feel so alone but I'm just emotionally tired crying and cry and praying every night 😔😞

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I feel the same way you do. I feel broken hearted each month, and so discouraged. I worry there is something wrong with me.

Everyone is pregnant around me & it's breaking my heart, am I the only one that feels this way?

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