We generally get annoyed when faced with a social event.  Unless we really feel up for it, rarely, we run through a list of plausible excuses.  Lately there's been one person whose been annoying. Daily, it's an invite to this, that, help with this, that, would you like to come over for this, or that.  This person is so involved in every social gatherings and organizations that it's impossible to keep up.  I've been involved once or twice before but she wants everyone involved all the time.  There's only so many ways I can say no thank you.  If I didn't live on the same street I would just ignore but we live to eat I have to be somewhat tactful.  This is the reason this post is Anon.

My H has this friend whose been kinda shit outta luck in life lately and DH is trying to be a good friend and supportive but this guy asks to come over evrrryyyydayy to smoke and they usually spend a few mins in the garage smoking but he wants to hang out and we try not to encourage it. Because to me, espically being so pregnant, I take my pants off at home and get super comfy.  I don't drink or smoke.  It would bemtotally in my way if they played video games and my DH knows better then to suggest that.  He doesn't want to hang out either, much rather spend time with me and watch baby grow.  

Even my own brothers.  As a kid I wished we were closer and they were part of my life.  Now they want to be a part of my life but neither of our lifestyles match and we have nothing in common.  One brother is a hippie who does nothing and the other bro is a clean cut, people person, business man who loves networking, shaking hands and making money.  Neither have families.  I'm family oriented to my own little nuclear family and very content with that.  

These are the two biggest examples.  But almost everyone thats tried to meet up with us has made us feel intolerant and distant.  The appeal of a house far away with lots of land and a few hours car ride from town is growing it's appeal.